Alzheimer's: It's close to my heart
My grandfather Francis Drake, 86, has be diagnosed with Alzheimer's, since in January 2007. My mother, Suzanne Walker, 50, was layed off in February and now spends most of her time taking care of him.
I remember two things about my granfather that have always made me laugh. In his youth he wanted to be a photographer, but since he couldn't spell "photography" when he enlisted in the U.S. Navy, he could spell "engineer." So, "engineer" is what he became. The other is that he always lied about his age, always.
As for my mother, she's always had a loving heart. Now we could all say that about our mothers, but if you met her you would understand. But her loving nature these days have become something deeper.
These days she's an "informal caregiver."
A position 19 million other Americans can proclaim as they care for a parent or grandparent 75 or older, she's now a part of something I've only read about.
Visiting once or twice a week, she comes as much as she can between going back to college and taking care of her mother, my grandmother.
Bringing her Yorkshire terrier around the facility, he even falls asleep with my grandfather during visits.
Making sure he's comfortable, she does what she can with little help, except from the nursing home that is now his home.
Vigil honors victims of earthquake
Dated May 20, 2008 for The Independent Florida Alligator
Harsh winds couldn’t extinguish the flames blazing from a couple hundred candlewicks at a Friday night vigil held to honor victims of an earthquake that hit the Sichuan Province of China on May 12.
The vigil, hosted by the Friendship Association of Chinese Students and Scholars, a non-profit student organization, took place at the Reitz Union Amphitheater.
About 250 students, faculty and Gainesville residents attended the ceremony and observed 30 seconds of silence to honor victims of the earthquake, both living and dead.
Since a 7.9-magnitude earthquake struck the southwest province of China May 12, the death toll has risen to about 35,000, and about 245,000 people have been injured.
UF President Bernie Machen spoke to the crowd beside a large heart illuminated by individual white candles placed front and center of the amphitheater.
“We grieve with them,” Machen said. “Indeed, all of us in America have suffered a great loss because the Chinese are our great friends.”
Members of the association are still seeking donations after collecting about $10,000 since Wednesday afternoon, said Jiawei Zhang, the club’s vice president.
All proceeds will be donated to the Chinese Red Cross, said Weitao Li, president to the Chinese Red Cross, said Weitao Li also encouraged students to give donations to the Chinese Consulate General in New York City or to Mercy Corps.
Long Yu, a chemistry graduate student, is one of many students who donated money in support of earthquake relief, accumulating roughly $1,100 in donations during the week from his own pocket.
“At this point, we’re not caring about money but hope,” Yu said.
“Life is so invaluable.”
Jiangyan Xu, an engineering graduate student, attended the vigil because he feels close to those who share is culture and dialect. He did not lose friends or family in the earthquake.
“We’re lucky people we know survived,” Xu said.
Weifeng Liu, an electrical and computer engineering graduate student, had no family affected by the earthquake but donated $20 on Thursday at the Ching Oriental Market.
“It’s a dark and emotional moment for the whole country,” Liu said. “We hope more people can help.”